Category: Identity
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Psychology and the Disappearing Self – 5: The Eternal Self — Being, Peace, and the End of Healing
After the trauma has been named, the patterns traced, the parts explored, the growth pursued — something remains unsettled. We are told healing is a journey, a process that takes time. But we begin to sense that this process has no end. We reach moments of relief, only to find new layers. We feel better,…
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Psychology and the Disappearing Self – 4: The Myth of Growth — When Progress Becomes Another Cage
“Keep going.”“Do the work.”“Trust the process.”“Become your best self.” These are the sacred mantras of modern spirituality and psychology. Growth is no longer just a goal — it is a moral obligation, a mark of worth, a sign of self-awareness. To grow is to evolve. To evolve is to be good. To stay the same…
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Psychology and the Disappearing Self – 3: Inner Child and Fragmented Selves — Healing Without Wholeness
The modern self is a fractured self. In the therapeutic worldview, we are not one — we are many.We carry an “inner child,” a wounded protector, a critical parent, dissociated parts, shadow selves. We speak of being triggered, “not feeling like ourselves,” or “working with the parts that got hurt.”And so healing becomes the art…
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Psychology and the Disappearing Self – 2: The Trauma Identity — Woundedness as the Modern Self
We live in an age where trauma has become a primary lens through which the self is understood. No longer reserved for the catastrophic, trauma now describes nearly every kind of suffering, rupture, or emotional pain. To be traumatized is no longer a condition on the margins — it has become a central identity. We…
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Psychology and the Disappearing Self – 1: The Therapeutic Worldview — Psychology as a Substitute Metaphysics
In the ruins of traditional meaning, psychology offered hope. As religion faded, as metaphysics was declared obsolete, and as the self lost its anchor in Being, the modern world turned to therapy — not only as a tool for emotional well-being, but as a way of understanding reality itself. We began to see the self…
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Know Thyself – 10: The Eternal Destiny of the Self
History, Time, and the Unfolding of Being From the beginning of this journey, we have traced the crisis of identity to its metaphysical roots: the belief that the self is made, not given, that it becomes, rather than is. We have seen how this illusion gives rise to confusion, fragmentation, and suffering, not only for…
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Know Thyself – 9: The Community of Eternal Selves
Beyond Contract and Contingency: Toward a People of Being Modern society is built upon the belief that individuals are autonomous agents who form relationships: personal, social, or political; through choice, negotiation, and mutual benefit. From this standpoint, community becomes a fragile contract, always subject to revision, dependent on will, agreement, and utility. But this vision…
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Know Thyself – 8: The Rediscovery of Personhood: From Psychological Construct to Eternal Reality
Know Thyself: The Crisis of Identity and the Return to Being “Man is not merely a part of the world, but the place where the world begins to appear.”– Emanuele Severino The Disappearance of the Person In an age obsessed with identity, the person has all but disappeared. We speak endlessly of roles, traits, preferences,…
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Know Thyself – 7: The Culture of Self-Making and the Tyranny of Becoming
You can be whatever you want to be.” But what if that is the root of our confusion? Modern culture does not ask us to know ourselves; it demands that we make ourselves.This shift, often hailed as liberation, has become a new tyranny. We are no longer born with a destiny to recognize, but with…
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Know Thyself – 6: Death and the False End of the Self
“You will not die.” – The Eternal speaks, overturning the oldest lie. If there is a single belief that governs modern anxiety, it is this: You will end. Death is no longer a mystery or passage, as it was for many ancient cultures; it is now regarded as the absolute cessation of the self. A…
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Know Thyself – 5: Memory, Loss, and the Illusion of the Vanishing Self
“All that is yours shall return to you, not as you remember it, but as it is.” In the experience of memory, we encounter both presence and absence.The beloved face, the longed-for moment, the words once spoken, they appear again, but only as images, pale echoes of what once was. We say things like, “She’s…
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Know Thyself – 4: Relational Beings: Love, Recognition, and the Eternal Other
“Where two or three are gathered in my name…”– not merely a number, but a revelation of Being-in-relation. If the modern self is imagined as a solitary project, the eternal self is not.We do not exist alone. We never have. The idea of relation is not an optional feature of human life, nor a later…
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Know Thyself – 3: The Myth of the Fluid Self: Desire, Gender, and the Collapse of Form
“I feel like I’m becoming who I really am.”– A common expression, but beneath it, a profound contradiction. In a world where identity has been severed from Being, where presence has dissolved into process, fluidity emerges as an ideal. To be fluid is to be free, unconstrained, endlessly open to becoming. This modern myth is…
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Know Thyself – 2: The Fragmented Self: Psychology, Power, and the Loss of Presence
“I used to think I was one person. Now I’m not so sure.” The modern self is not only in crisis; it is shattered. Fragmented across roles, performances, diagnoses, and projections, the self has become a mosaic of shifting parts. Where once we spoke of character or soul, we now speak of personality types, trauma…
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Know Thyself – 1: The Crisis of Identity: Becoming, Nothingness, and the Modern Self
“Modern man believes he can be anything — because he no longer believes there is anything he truly is.” We begin in the midst of crisis. Not just political or cultural, but ontological. We no longer know who we are, and worse, we have come to believe that this unknowing is freedom. For centuries, the…
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Know Thyself – Introduction
The Crisis of Identity and the Return to Being We live in an age where identity is everything, and nothing. It is affirmed, debated, deconstructed, weaponized, and endlessly remade. To belong or to be excluded, to find one’s “true self” or to reject the very idea of a fixed self; these now lie at the…
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Identity 3: The Inevitable Resolution – From Fragmentation to the Recognition of Identity
In the previous articles, we explored identity as necessary (unchangeable and eternally true—it simply is) and eternal, hidden by cultural pressures, nihilism, and fragmentation. We examined how contemporary society’s emphasis on becoming, technological influences, nihilistic tendencies, and social isolation contribute to the division of the self. Now, we turn to the resolution of this fragmentation.…
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Identity 2: The Fragmentation of the Individual – Forces Dividing the Self in Contemporary Society
In the previous article, we uncovered identity as necessary (unchangeable and eternally true—it simply is) and eternal, hidden by misconceptions tied to time, nihilism, and cultural emphasis on becoming. Now, we turn to the fragmentation of the individual—how and why our true identity is obscured and divided in today’s world. Modern society, with its rapid…
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Identity 1: What Is Identity? Unveiling the Eternal Self
In our fast-paced world, identity often seems like a fluid concept—something we shape, redefine, or even reinvent over time. We hear phrases like “finding oneself,” “changing who I am,” or “reinventing my identity,” suggesting that identity is flexible, subject to personal choice and external circumstances. Yet, beneath these assumptions lies a deeper truth: identity is…
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